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Just had a call from my sister who is in tears her and husband have been having probs she kept it quiet and just informed me they had a massive row tonight he has stormed out she said she doesn't love him anymore and wants out. I got the idea things weren't right but not to this extent. I feel like I've been really selfish by not seeing what was happening with my own sister and brother-in-law.

They have been together for 30yrs and this is awful for them both, I don't know what to do, she said she just needs to clear her head and get the house on the market, but I did say she first needs to sit down when things are calmer and discuss the house how they split the equity which as they both work should be an easy thing to do. The kids aren't a problem as one already left 26yrs and the other is 25 so not an issue.

This is horrible can't believe this is happening and I feel so helpless as still going through my own crap.

But i will support them both and listen to them when they need me as they did for me. Sorry just had to express myself. :( Sad day again.